What Happens After You File For Divorce in California?

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What happens after you file for divorce? It’s a life-altering decision, and how you choose to navigate it can significantly impact your post-divorce life, especially if children are involved. In California, couples have the option to go through mediation instead of the traditional court route, which can offer a more amicable and collaborative way to […]

Navigating an Uncontested Divorce in California: Mediated vs. Litigated Process

When couples decide to part ways in California, an uncontested divorce can be a peaceful and cost-effective option. Unlike a contested divorce, where disagreements lead to court battles, an uncontested divorce occurs when both parties are in alignment (for the most part) on major issues like property division, child custody, and support. This does not […]

The Hidden Costs of Divorce Litigation

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There are several reasons why I chose to work in the field of mediation, rather than live my life fighting for clients in a litigation setting. I am sure I’ve written a blog about that, but if not, I will. However, this blog is not about why working as a mediator is better (in my […]

The Do’s & Don’ts of Divorce Mediation

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Divorce mediation is a process where a neutral third party, the mediator, helps divorcing couples reach agreements on various aspects of their separation, such as asset division, child custody, and support arrangements. We often discuss the ‘do’s and don’ts’ of the clients in a divorce mediation – but what you hear less about are do’s […]

The True Value of a Skilled Mediator in Divorce Proceedings

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What is the value of a skilled divorce mediator? Divorce is undoubtedly one of the most challenging and emotionally charged experiences a person can go through. The dissolution of a marriage involves complex legal, financial, and personal aspects that often lead to heightened tensions and disputes. In such situations, the role of a skilled mediator […]

Staying in the House After Divorce with a Post-Judgment Occupancy Agreement

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Divorce can be an emotionally challenging and complex process, especially when it comes to dividing assets and deciding who gets to keep the family home. In many cases, one spouse may wish to continue living in the marital home post-divorce for various reasons, such as stability for children or emotional attachment. This situation often calls […]

Simplifying the Process: Divorce Mediation in Orange County

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As a divorce mediator in Orange County, California, my goal is to help you and your spouse navigate the divorce process in a friendly and professional manner. Here is a simplified overview of how the divorce mediation process typically works:  Initial Consultation We’ll start with an initial consultation where we’ll discuss your situation, concerns, and […]

Navigating Divorce with Compassion: The Power of Mediation in Orange County

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Divorce is undeniably a challenging and emotionally charged experience for all parties involved. It’s during this difficult time that the importance of compassion and understanding becomes paramount. As a professional family mediator in Orange County, California, I have witnessed firsthand how mediation can be the most compassionate path through the divorce process. In this blog […]

The Benefits of Mediation Over Litigation When Facing a Divorce in California 

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My name is Jennifer Segura, most refer to me as “Jen.” I am a professional family mediator in San Diego, California. I am writing this blog to educate people about the benefits of mediation over litigation when facing a divorce.  Benefits of Mediation: The benefits of mediation are endless, such as flexibility, confidentiality, and control […]

Divorce Mediation: Navigating the Choppy Waters of Divorce

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Divorce can be an emotionally turbulent and expensive process. It can leave you feeling like you’re caught in a never-ending storm, with no end in sight. But there is a way to navigate the choppy waters of divorce with a little less turbulence: divorce mediation.  Being a divorce mediator in San Diego, California, for the […]

California Divorce Mediation: What We Do

California Divorce Mediation: What We Do

Hey there, this is your friendly neighborhood family mediator. Today, I’m going to share with you what the mediation process looks like when helping a couple through a divorce in California. Now, you may be thinking, “Divorce? That’s not funny!” But believe me, it’s possible to approach this serious subject with a little bit of […]

California Divorce Mediation: Remaining Neutral

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When you hear people discuss divorce mediation, you will often hear them talk about being neutral or impartial. I have always thought of myself in this manner – as a neutral facilitator, or an impartial third party. There never seemed to be another way to categorize what I do as a mediator, but then I […]