Simplifying the Process: Divorce Mediation in Orange County
As a divorce mediator in Orange County, California, my goal is to help you and your spouse navigate the divorce process in a friendly and professional manner. Here is a simplified overview of how the divorce mediation process typically works: Initial Consultation We’ll start with an initial consultation where we’ll discuss your situation, concerns, and […]
Hiring a Mediator versus Hiring an Attorney
The legal system can be confusing and complicated, especially when it comes to divorce. The formalities of suing another person may seem reasonable when a product fails to meet its intended purpose, or a large corporation fails to meet its duty to the public. However, when one thinks about how a family fits into this […]
Thriving Through Divorce to Stay Whole
Hear from best-selling author, Katy Goshtasbi on Thriving Through Divorce to Stay Whole: Divorce can mean so many things in your life. I remember when I got divorced and wondered who I would be post-divorce. I also considered how I would manage the changes that divorce brought to emerge from the process whole and not […]
10 Inspirational Quotes for a Difficult Day
Going through a divorce can be difficult, here are 10 inspirational quotes for a difficult day to remind yourself that no matter what life throws at you, you can handle it. Courage doesn’t mean you don’t get afraid. Courage means you don’t let fear stop you. Be thankful for what you are now, and keep […]
Why Women Ask for a Divorce
Due to the topic at hand, this blog relates primarily to heterosexual couples, although, there is surely some truth to the difference between spouses in same-sex marriages as well. But why do women initiate? How do you ask for a divorce? It is often thought that men, more often than women, are the ones who […]
How to Take Control of Your Divorce
One of the recurring themes that we see with clients is that they feel completely out of control during a divorce. This applies in particular to clients who weren’t the initiator of the divorce process. It is easy to go on autopilot when dealing with any stressful situation, but for long-term happiness and contentment with the […]
Mediation Behind Closed Doors – Part 1: The Mystery of Mediation
We often have clients come in, and at the end of their first meeting, they tell us how relieved they feel. Most of the time, people are very anxious when they start this process. Rightfully so! Especially because many of those who have come before them went through litigation and had told them the horror […]
How to Manage Your Stress During a Divorce
It is no secret that going through a divorce is stressful, even when each party approaches the process with a co-operative mindset. Experts say that we process divorce much like a death. First, there is the initial shock, a grieving process, and then acceptance. Going through this difficult time can be incredibly overwhelming, especially when […]
Military & Divorce: What You Need to Know
The military life puts considerable stress on all family members. Frequent moves, long deployments, and the dealing with the emotional after-effects can cause any marriage to go off the rails. It isn’t surprising that military members suffer from a much higher rate of divorce compared to the general population. Getting a divorce while one, or […]
What to Do When Your Family Doesn’t Support Your Divorce
Getting a divorce is a personal decision between two people within a marriage. Of course, that doesn’t stop your extended family from having their opinion about your divorce, or worse, trying to be involved. The truth is, family support is crucial to have during a divorce, just in the right amounts. If your family doesn’t […]
Tips for Going Through a Divorce During the Holidays
The holidays may be the hardest time to go through a divorce. You are probably feeling overwhelmed by images of happy families, traditions that remind you of your marriage, and prying questions from family and close friends. It is enough to make you want to ball up and hide until after New Year’s Day. While […]
The Best Time for a Divorce
Scheduling a divorce can be difficult, particularly if you have children. Deciding when to start the process can weigh heavy on your mind. Many clients ask us, “When is the best time is to file a divorce?” and the answer is surprisingly simple. The best time for a divorce is when you feel ready. As […]